Being single it's a big deal.
Spreading your attention between two people and two things is no easy task. The only way being coupled with another human of the opposite gender is if they unite for God'e growth. To put all that time and effort into one other flesh when you already place so much time and affection into yourself. Where is the time for work where is the time to be with God, being productive?
There's time for you and if your lucky time for God when your single but when your yolked with someone else how much more difficult is it to incorporate others into the mix. If you are one to be a whole egg for God then by all means do it.
But friend do not forget that this time of your life when you have FREEDOM not being tied to another, for God.
If you know me at all you know how much of a struggle this is for me I do love women and I can hardly wait to be with my beautiful bride to be SOMEDAY, but what if there is a specific task I can, should and perhaps even need to do while I am wholly lonely from another flesh.
My wife and I will intercede for the lost, the broken, minister to His children and we will be dangerous against the enemy. But I keep coming back to it. Is there something that I, we should do before we are tied to another?(Us signalers) All the spare time I have away from conversations with her, no specific face in mind to pray for and protect at all times.
Sub-text:I just learned that someone who is 30 died with Leukemia. I pray for this Family's loss. I pray they cope and I pray that people would find God in knowing how short this life is.
I add this sub-text in because that could be me in 11 years. How much more can I do in 11 years without devoting this life on a wife? Sub-Sub Text: I learned that this guy (Tony)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5zIaZ_0IUKc&feature=plcp
is going to die (according to human doctors) in a few months I do not know where his faith lies, i haven't met him yet although I am trying to get ahold of him. He has leukemia too. I believe God can heal his flesh stronger than any doctor. He is the great doctor. But I more greatly pray for his heart, soul, and flesh that he would love Jesus and believe on THE LORD and be saved from damnation because if his flesh dies here it matters not. There will be a new creation: with no pain. =]
I wait and wait and seek and urge to have a wife some day! But what can I accomplish now without her in my life: how can I be dangerous without her so that when I am with her we become so much more dangerous for God and help Christ together.
Chemistry lesson. Take two highly explosive chemicals, Hydrogen and Oxygen.
They are both dangerous stuff they can blow stuff up with just a little spark. Which is needed to provide fire warmth heat and activity. Without a fire ablaze how will "they know where to flock to?" but then when they reach the fire if the two chemicals meet together and join to make h2o can there be sustainance in water?
Use your single dangerousness to bring the flock and if you feel called to change once they have been flocked, meet with another and be united to form a sustainable resource. BOOM!
No intimate prayer at the end this time. I just ask that my God would bless whoever reads this. If my words are just from my mouth, my mind, they will fade from your hear. Hear God's words, hear Him.
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